Wargh. I keep missing days.
Are you a lover or a fighter
Lover. I can’t fight much, it’s very exhausting. Not that i give up easily, it’s just, I feel it’s better to love people than to fight with them just because you don’t agree about something. I dunno. I guess it depends on the situation, but I’m mostly a lover. I think I would have done very well in the hippie era xD
Why are you doing this challenge
Because I want to look back at the end of the year, and say, “Yes! I managed to finish something I started!”
Describe your future wedding
Small, intimate. Crazy, crazy romantic, with lots of roses everywhere, and petals on the ground. Probably outdoors, and we’ll say our vows in a small pavilion. I plan to design my own dress, teehee :3
What is the most inspirational thing you have ever heard
Last week, I went to the opening of this thing called The CRIB (I wrote about it a bit earlier in the week), and I met the owner, Zhariff. He has no arms, only stumps at the shoulders, and does everything with his feet. Just hearing him talk about everything he’s done was the most inspirational thing ever. He’s been to the US, to London, he’s started movements there among the youth, volunteer initiatives, and he helps youth out in every way he possibly can. Watching him talk about it, he was so passionate and excited about the things he’s doing, you can’t help but be excited about it as well. I think that’s the most inspirational thing I’ve heard, just his story and his plans.
If you didn’t have an age, how old would you think you were
40something. HAHA.
You day, in great detail
I woke up before my sister did, and waited for her to get out of bed so I could take my pillow back. Once I got it, I fell asleep again for at least another 45 minutes. I eventually got up, checked Twitter and Path, and crawled out of bed, groaning and wishing I could sleep more. Took a shower, brushed my teeth in my underwear. Wrapped a towel around myself and went to my room to pick out my outfit for the day. Decided on black tights, high-waisted shorts that needed a wash and a grey collared singlet. Went to work, got a chocolate chip and banana muffin from Starbucks because I was starving hungry. Walked up 7 flights of stairs to my office, huffing and puffing. Ika ignored me when I got in, I was annoyed and hurt, but I decided whatever, I’d just let her come around. Tumbled for a couple of hours. Boss came in right before Ika and I went for lunch, and gave us some work to do. Went for lunch at McD’s and ate a triple cheeseburger, because I can. Packed food for my boss. Went back to the office, finished up the days’ work. Tumbled some more. Tried to watch Glee, but the internet was being screwy so I didn’t bother, and I don’t think I could’ve handled it anyway. Met Scott (big brother) after work, dropped Ika off at the train station then went and had duck rice with the family for dinner. Waited for Scott while he went to the pet store to buy stuff for his sugar gliders. Came home. Took off my make-up, peed and showered. Flopped on the couch and read Nylon magazine. And now here I am.
Your definition of love
When you love someone, really truly love someone, making, or seeing them happy is what makes you happy as well. I mean, it doesn’t matter what happens. They might stay with you forever, they might go away. They might decide they don’t love you, and they never did. But when you love them, even if they go away, you’ll be happy for them, because you did everything you could to make them happy, even if it meant letting them go.
Even if it meant sacrificing a bit of your own happiness for them. That’s what I think love is.
Also, it won’t matter who they were before, or who they will become. You accept them for everything that they are. You love them? Be willing to grow with them, to accept them no matter what has happened, or what will happen, to be there for them no matter what. To remind them you love them.
Yeah. That’s what I think.
